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Bethany, May Light Perpetual Shine Upon Her

Today would be my friend Bethany’s 34th day, but she didn’t get to celebrate it. She  died yesterday of cancer. God-forsaken, motherfucking cancer. Bethany – kind, generous, funny, loving, Bethany – is gone. As with Juliet, “death lies on her like an untimely frost upon the sweetest flower of all the field.” It is so… Read more Bethany, May Light Perpetual Shine Upon Her

Was Eliza Hancock the Model for Mary Crawford?

Eliza Hancock was Jane Austen’s cousin and future sister-in-law, and many speculate she was also the model for some of Austen’s most vivacious characters, including my perpetual favorite — Mary Crawford. If so, it seems to indicate that Austen loved her cousin … yet was nonetheless jealous of the attention the sparkling Eliza could command… Read more Was Eliza Hancock the Model for Mary Crawford?